这是一本写给年轻人的情商修炼手册，心灵励志书。作者善以另类视角解析年轻人的情志误区，帮助年轻人去明辨生活中遇到的各种问题，用更多视角去看懂人生。有时候努力并不能真正成就一个人，真正能让你走向理想人生的往往是生活中一个个不受关注的选择。 This is a manual for the young to develop their emotional quotients, an inspiring book. The author is good at analyzing the misunderstandings of young people's emotions with unusual perspectives, and helping them to discern various problems in their lives and see life with more perspectives. Sometimes, hard work will not make you success, and what push you to your ideal life truly are one after another unnoticeable decisions in life.