Chamin Ajjan is the author of Seeking Soulmate: Ditch The Dating Game and Find Real Connection. She is an intimacy expert and licensed clinical social worker who did her undergrad work at the University of California, Berkeley, and attended graduate school at Columbia University. She has post graduate training in sex therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy and is a Diplomate of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy. She has been in private practice since 2004 and is the founder and Clinical Director of Chamin Ajjan Psychotherapy, a boutique clinic in New York City. In those years she has come to see that no matter what a patient cites as their reason for engaging in treatment, it usually all comes down to love. Romantic relationships and the attempt to find one continue to be the most talked-about subjects among her single clients. Chamin has blogged extensively about mindful dating on her website, chaminajjan.com, and developed a unique mindful dating model that she uses in her psychotherapy practice. She lives with her husband, daughter and son in Brooklyn, New York.