How can I praise a woman, then take advantage of her for the same things I praised her for? Why do I get so much joy from disrupting a woman's life, just to leave after I feel as though she learned the lesson I thought she needed to be taught? It's rumored that a good woman changes a man, but men don't change. We begin to realize what we are and get scared. So do you accept a man for who he is, or do you leave him for the same reasons you chose to entertain him? The mind of a rehabilitated man is a fascinating one. They say a good woman will always trump philosophy.