Self-Help for if you don't laugh, you'll cry. Dear Baby Do you feel like no one understands the relationship you have with your dummy? Don't worry. A lot of babies feel this way. We're here to help you get the comfort you need, from the dummy you love. Happy sucking! If you've had a baby, you've no doubt had some well-meaning parent smugly say, 'You know, babies don't come with a manual.' Well, now your newborn can READ the manual with Self-Help for Babies, a hilarious new series from bestselling Australian authors Beck and Matt Stanton.