
Hi. My name is Gary. My story began with a childhood of sexual abuse and numerous other losses. When my life began to unravel as a teen, another family took me in and changed the trajectory of my life. My healing journey began. Eager to help others heal and grow, my heart turned outward. Over the next three decades, I served as a campus minister, a church-planting missionary in Japan, an entrepreneur in Hawaii, and a pastor. I'm currently work as a writer, speaker, and hospice chaplain. After walking through deep valleys with thousands of people, I can say the following with confidence: • We've all been wounded • Healing isn't for sissies • We’re all designed for impact • The world needs us • We must heal I'm here to help. I'm no guru or master of anything. I'm a fellow struggler. I still bear the scars of my wounds. I grieve, get anxious, worry, and battle fear regularly. But I'm healing, and I'm growing. Stop by my website. Drop me an email. I’d love to hear from you.

Picking Up the Pieces After a Suicide
2019

Hope and Healing After Losing Your Parent
2020

Hope and Healing After Losing Your Partner
2019

Overcoming Adversity and Turning Pain into Purpose, Every Day
2019

Experiencing God After the Loss of a Loved One
2020

Healing from the Loss of a Spouse
2015

How to Fight and Win the Battle for Your Mind and Heart
2019

How to Fight and Win the Battle for Your Mind and Heart
2019

How to Care For and Support the Grieving Heart
2016

Surviving the Loss of a Child
2017

Finding Hope and Healing through the Losses of Life
2013

Navigating Grief During Special Seasons
2013

Caring for the Grieving Teenage Heart
2017

Common Questions, Compassionate Answers, Practical Suggestions
2021