We often hear that life is a journey, and it's the journey that matters - the path and the experiences - more than anything else. The family confronted with a loved one struggling against dementia often faces new, unexpected twists and turns in their journey. This book offers some perspective on that journey, as we were acting as primary care providers for our mothers-in-law. It is part memoir, part journal, and all based on the things we were writing at the time. IN seeing what we experienced and the decisions we each made, over the arc of care-giving and then recovery, perhaps you will be better able to understand your own path, choose your own road.