This book is basically about getting to know me as an author. Why me? You say, what's so special about me? Really nothing. But I guess it helps you 1.understand my background and where I came from. 2.This is where I actually got a lot of my ideas! I generated a lot of my ideas from my family and from life experiences. So this book, is really about how I was brought up, taught, my beliefs, the values I was taught, my families theories or "take" as we like to call it. Another wards their perception on me and how things should work in my family. I will also tell you how they 'actually' worked! I will tell you about the embarrassing moments, the fearful moments, the "secrets" of our family, the high's and low's of our family. I will finish it by telling you why or how I came up the title and sub title that I did! I hope this helps you better understand me! I also hope you enjoy it! For my family, if you should pick this up, It is all true, their is nothing that I'm no longer covering up. If you don't like it, tough! The truth, or 'my truth' must come out! If you don't like ti, that i your perogative!! If you choose to stop talking to me, again it's your perogative.