Zaan: Lexi and I never thought we’d get pregnant. After battling breast cancer in her teens, we didn’t know if she could carry a baby, much less that it could happen naturally. Now, she’s about to leave on a world tour with her band, and I’m having a hard time letting her go. The Sidewinders are in the playoffs and that’s all I should be focused on, but how do you choose between your career and the woman who owns your heart? Lexi: There’s nothing like an unplanned pregnancy to throw your career—and marriage—into a tailspin. As the lead singer for the platinum selling rock band Nobody’s Fool, I don’t have time to take a year off for pregnancy and childbirth. No matter how much we want this baby. I’m being pulled in a lot of directions and the person I usually count on for everything, my husband, is only adding to the chaos of my life. Something has to give, and I really don’t want it to be me.