Collins Throughout my life I've always had a confident demeanor, especially when it comes to my work. However, looks can be deceiving. Just like many other women, I'm painfully insecure about myself. I'm at the point in my life where I don't think anyone will ever love me, or the inches that accompany me. The funny thing about pain is that it consumes you when you least expect it. The question is, will I be able to overcome it, or will it consume every part of me?