HE & SHE aka The Orgasm Book Everyone has a little quirk when they orgasm—some people scream, make 'the face', curl their toes into the sheets—I become a man. Like, full-on dick, balls, rippling pectorals. It's not magic—or if it is, it's not like any magic I've ever heard of—it's just something that happens to me. When I come, I shift. If I'm a girl, I become a guy. If I'm a guy, I become a girl. Twenty-nine years ago, I was born a woman. At age sixteen when I had my first orgasm, I became a man. Oh, and I'm in love with my best friend. Who's a guy. Who's friends with my guy, and who is decidedly not gay. Yeah, my life, it's complicated.