A friends to lover boss/secretary story...continued. Julia He’s not my boss anymore but nothing has changed. After one hour of therapy we’re more broken than when we started. I kept a secret from him. A big one. Twelve years of lies and half-truths, of telling each other only what we think and never what we feel. I love him, but I don’t know if can do this anymore. Because he treats me as if I’m mostly his girlfriend. And I want the real thing.