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The Book of Delights
Essays
2019
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Ross Gay’s The Book of Delights is a genre-defying book of essays—some as short as a paragraph; some as long as five pages—that record the small joys that occurred in one year, from birthday to birthday, and that we often overlook in our busy lives. His is a meditation on delight that takes a clear-eyed view of the complexities, even the terrors, in his life, including living in America as a black man; the ecological and psychic violence of our consumer culture; the loss of those he loves. Among Gay’s funny, poetic, philosophical delights: the way Botan Rice Candy wrappers melt in your mouth, the volunteer crossing guard with a pronounced tremor whom he imagines as a kind of boat-woman escorting pedestrians across the River Styx, a friend’s unabashed use of air quotes, pickup basketball games, the silent nod of acknowledgment between black people. And more than any other subject, Gay celebrates the beauty of the natural world—his garden, the flowers in the sidewalk, the birds, the bees, the mushrooms, the trees. This is not a book of how-to or inspiration, though it could be read that way. Fans of Roxane Gay, Maggie Nelson, and Kiese Laymon will revel in Gay’s voice, and his insights. The Book of Delights is about our connection to the world, to each other, and the rewards that come from a life closely observed. Gay’s pieces serve as a powerful and necessary reminder that we can, and should, stake out a space in our lives for delight. Preface

  1. My Birthday, Kinda
  2. Inefficiency
  3. Flower in the Curb
  4. Blowing It Off
  5. Hole in the Head
  6. Remission Still
  7. Praying Mantis
  8. The Negreeting
  9. The High-Five from Strangers, Etc
  10. Writing by Hand
  11. Transplanting
  12. Nicknames
  13. But, Maybe ..
  14. "Joy Is Such a Human Madness
  15. House Party
  16. Hummingbird
  17. Just a Dream
  18. "That's Some Bambi Shit" ..
  19. The Irrepressible: The Gratitudes
  20. Tap Tap
  21. Coffee without the Saucer
  22. Lily on the Pants
  23. Sharing a Bag 24. Umbrella in the Café
  24. Beast Mode
  25. Airplane Rituals
  26. Weirdly Untitled
  27. Pecans
  28. The Do-Over
  29. Infinity
  30. Ghost
  31. Nota Bene
  32. "Love Me in a Special Way"
  33. "Stay," by Lisa Loeb
  34. Stacking Delights
  35. Donny Hathaway on Pandora
  36. "To Spread the Sweetness of Love"
  37. Baby, Baby, Baby
  38. "REPENT OR BURN"
  39. Giving My Body to the Cause
  40. Among the Rewards of My Sloth . .
  41. Not Grumpy Cat
  42. Some Stupid Shit
  43. Not Only . .
  44. Microgentrification: WE BUY GOLD
  45. Reading Palms
  46. The Sanctity of Trains
  47. Bird Feeding
  48. Kombucha in a Mid-century Glass
  49. Hickories
  50. Annoyed No More
  51. Toto
  52. Church Poets
  53. Public Lying Down
  54. Babies. Seriously
  55. "My Life, My Life, My Life, My Life in the Sunshine
  56. Incorporation
  57. Botan Rice Candy
  58. Understory
  59. "Joy Is Such a Human Madness": The Duff Between Us
  60. "It's Just the Day I'm Having" ..
  61. The Purple Cornets of Spring
  62. The Volunteer
  63. Fishing an Eyelash: Two or Three Cents on the Virtues of the Poetry Reading
  64. Found Things
  65. Found Things (2)
  66. Cuplicking
  67. Bobblehead
  68. The Jenky 70. The Crow's Ablutions
  69. Flowers in the Hands of Statues
  70. An Abundance of Public Toilets
  71. The Wave of Unfamiliars
  72. Not for Nothing
  73. Bindweed ... Delight?
  74. Dickhead
  75. Ambiguous Signage Sometimes
  76. Heart to Heart
  77. Caution: Bees on Bridge
  78. Tomato on Board
  79. Purple-Handed
  80. Name: Kayte Young; Phone Number: 555-867-5309
  81. Still Processing
  82. Fireflies
  83. My Scythe Jack
  84. Pawpaw Grove
  85. Loitering
  86. Touched
  87. Scat
  88. Get Thee to the Nutrient Cycle!
  89. Pulling Carrots
  90. Filling the Frame
  91. Reckless Air Quotes 94. Judith Irene Gay, Aged Seventy-six Today!
  92. Rothko Backboard
  93. The Marfa Lights
  94. The Carport
  95. My Garden (Book):
  96. Black Bumblebees!
  97. Grown
  98. Coco-baby
  99. My Birthday
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Ross Gay
Ross Gay
Author · 10 books
Ross Gay is the author of Against Which, Bringing the Shovel Down, and Catalog of Unabashed Gratitude. His poems have appeared in American Poetry Review, Orion, the Sun, and elsewhere. He is an associate professor of poetry at Indiana University and teaches in Drew University’s low-residency MFA program in poetry. He also serves on the board of the Bloomington Community Orchard.
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